Breast size dating sites
My approach is not to apologise or make excuses for my size, just "I am what I am".
You are fresh out of an abusive relationship, you need to build yourself up a bit before jumping back in.
I found online dating to be an emotional roller coaster, something I had to carefully manage. I will preface by saying that living in inner Sydney, most people I know are skinny.
Yet, my best friend is what you can call "chubby" and she is in a very happy relationship with an attractive, decent man. No matter your size, shape or look it's a numbers game.
I think honesty would the best policy on a mainstream site so you weed out those who would reject women purely on body size.
I do think dating as a larger woman would be harder but I think how comfortable you are in your own skin also has a huge impact on how you are perceived.